As a man, you have to think of ways on how to pleasure your woman in bed. One-sided lovemaking is a thing of the past, and if you are concerned about your partner’s enjoyment when you are having sex you must venture into doing things for her. If you are pleasuring her so that she creates her own lubrication then that is always a good sign. Trying new things is great but don’t lose sight of stimulating the known erogenous zones. Giving a girl explosive orgasms is not a three ring circus with you showing off all the new tricks you just read about, it’s about her.
The Tool Kit:
If you’re going to give a girl explosive orgasms there are techniques but there are also tools. A good toolkit starts with your body being clean and that faithful tool called a penis being cleaned and ready for action.
The next tool is also on your person; your hands. Make sure they are clean and that your nails are trimmed and that there are no loose rough pieces of skin.
The third is your lips and breath. Do use a lip balm and a rinse with mouthwash won’t hurt.
The fourth is having a medium sized vibrator with fully charged batteries.
The fifth is having a pleasant tasting vaginal lubricant that will not upset the PH balance of her vagina, these also come in air activated or moisture activated heating.
There are a number of other unique tools or toys of the trade but these are the basics.
Techniques’ to Give a Girl an Explosive Orgasm
Foreplay: foreplay is a warming of the engine, preparing it for the race. Skip the foreplay and all you’ll get is a putter. Massage her breasts and inner thighs’ lightly passing over the vulva. Better yet have her lie on her stomach and massage her back, hips, buttocks, and inner thighs. Dribble a little motion lotion through the lips and brush the lotion lightly through slightly separated lips. Massage the outer vaginal opening occasionally slipping a finger in. This is a good time to slip a little vibrato to the music of desire.
You have a choice here. You can massage her to the first orgasm or turn her over and apply a little lip and tongue massage to the point of orgasm or to the next technique.
Position: Woman have more than one erogenous zone and the best explosive type orgasms come from stimulating more than one at a time and this is where position comes in. Missionary style with a pillow under her buttocks will align you properly to hit the “G” spot and thrust against the clitoris but a more vertical for you will also allow you to touch the breasts and clitoris or even directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator.
Another is her in mount position so she can get after it any way she likes. Your hands are free, use them.
Lastly; whisper sweet something’s as she becomes aroused. Tell her how good it feels or how good she feels wrapped around you. Make erotic suggestions to orgasm by telling her she’s swelling with desire or how the hot and wet vagina is.